Had the great displeasure of witnessing a riding instructor whipping a horse so violently in a public parking lot that the horse, whom she was supposedly trying to teach to relax, reared and nearly flipped on her. She managed to jump off and hang onto a rein to keep him from bolting, but it was a truly terrible thing to watch. She started out by lashing the horse on either side of the neck with the ends of the reins, and once she was on the ground, she went to the dressage whip.
I hate that I just watched. I do not know how to intervene when someone is so obviously angry in a way that doesn’t lead to the horse being punished even more harshly. But maybe intervening brings the person back to their senses. I hate the complicity in the silence of watching at a distance, and the complicity of the automatic socially acceptable polite response to the rider justifying their cruelty as “just teaching the horse to behave”. Maybe that polite response is a fear response, fear that the rider turns their anger against me, and maybe if I’d said something, she’d have stopped walloping the horse and started screaming at me, which would have been better for the horse.
I need to unlearn quietness, so that the next time I see someone abusing a horse I can intervene in a way that helps the horse, not just in the moment but also afterwards. Lashing a horse with the reins until it rears in a panic is not ever acceptable, and it is so normalised by some equestrians that they have no shame doing it in a public, non-equestrian situation. And yet … as a horse person of thirty years experience, who was there, on the scene, as the abuse was happening, I stood by and let it happen. It’s not good enough to be kind to the horses I care for if I watch another horse being abused and do nothing.








